I managed to get bulletmenu plugin to look like css horizontally by simply getting rid of my own css, adding the external js and css files used by the website in this link:
http://www.onlinetools.org/tools/yadm/reldropdown.html
plus getting into the modul'es code and adding id=nav to the second in the source code.
So for them newbies out there it just:
a.- Edit:
/plugins/function.bulletmenu.php
b.- Find:
$menu .= "\n\n";
c.- Change to:
$menu .= "\n\n";
d.- Save file
e.- Put these files in your server:
http://www.onlinetools.org/tools/yadm/yadmnojs.css
http://www.onlinetools.org/tools/yadm/y ... opdown.css
http://www.onlinetools.org/tools/yadm/yadmmeta.css
http://www.onlinetools.org/tools/yadm/yadm.js
f.- remove your CSS and put this in your template, considering they are written into your dir where index.php is

@import "yadmmeta.css";
@import "yadmnojs.css";
@import "yadmreldropdown.css";
g.- Enjoy!
This thing supports a current id or something to mark exactly where you are within the menu, but that's just too advanced php for me

So the proof of concept is here, we have a vertical css module and this horizontal menu, both are pure CSS but still need a little js for IE!
yay!
I hope someone with the right skills put it together soon enough to make it into cms made simple .11 because phplayers is too big a bug to remain there just to keep biting newbies.