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I have a site that I am using fronteu etc for the first time.  The site is run by a members club and when an existing member goes online they have the opportunity to register into the members area.  However, instead of them then validating themselves, I need the e-mail to go to the club, to cross reference with their own members list and make sure that this is a valid member settting up their online community membership. 

Is there any way of doing this?

Thanks! 

Scotch.

the way we use it is as follows:

Selfregistration registers a user in a group called 'pending'.
When the user finishes his/her registration then a few people get a message at the office. One of the people will then go to frontendusers in the backend and review the data the user entered. If all is well then the admin will change the group of the user to the proper group.
We made sure that membership of the 'pending' group did not reveal any secrets and such.

HtH.

genius - thanks mate!